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  • Tightrope

    Today, I had every foster/adoptive parent’s nightmare – getting a visit from the Oklahoma Department of Human Services, because I had been accused of child abuse. Someone called the child abuse hotline to say that there was a child in my home in handcuffs and shackles. What they didn’t explain to the child abuse hotline was…

    cadamy

    April 6, 2014
    Uncategorized
    Adoption, advocacy, Mental Health, Reactive Attachment Disorder
  • To Look After Orphans

    Several years ago I began hearing this over and over again – “I can’t believe you don’t know Michelle Kelley!” I heard it so many times, I finally said, “Would someone please introduce me to this Michelle Kelley person?” So, we met via Facebook, and we’ve been soul sisters ever since. At the time we…

    cadamy

    April 5, 2014
    Uncategorized
    Christianity, Culture, Foster Child, Foster Parent, Good Okies, Michelle Kelley, Parenting, Politics, Religion
  • Dear Moms of Adopted Children | Kathy Lynn Harris

    This is almost a year old, but I’m just now seeing it, and I had to share. It is perfect. It describes me and so many of my friends so well that it brought me to tears.   Dear Moms of Adopted Children | Kathy Lynn HarrisKathy Lynn Harris.

    cadamy

    March 24, 2014
    Uncategorized
    Adoption
  • New Facebook page

    So many of you have kindly followed this blog and reached out to me on Facebook, that I created a new Facebook page just for those who are interested in becoming foster/adoptive parents or are interested in advocating for foster/adoption and mental health care.  I’ll share shorter and more frequent posts there about our daily…

    cadamy

    March 23, 2014
    Uncategorized
    Adoption, advocacy, Facebook, Foster Parent
  • ReMoved

    UPDATE: The makers of this lovely film are making Removed Part Two and need your help in getting it funded. Please view, donate & share! I woke up this morning to this lovely short film in my inbox. A sweet friend, who has devoted her professional life to therapeutic foster care issues, sent it along…

    cadamy

    March 9, 2014
    Uncategorized
    advocacy, Biological Parents, Foster Care, Foster Child, Foster Parent, Joyful, Removed, Siblings
  • Merry, Merry!

    This time last year, my now 11-year-old was in the midst of a meltdown that would land her a few days later in the Reactive Attachment Disorder unit at our local psychiatric hospital, where she would stay until August. So, this year, thanks to remarkable therapists, psychiatrists, teachers, family, friends and people we don’t even…

    cadamy

    December 24, 2013
    Uncategorized
    Adoption, attachment, Christmas, Foster Care, Foster Parent, holidays, Reactive Attachment Disorder
  • Nine Fun Facts About My Adoption

    A friend asked me to participate in the latest Facebook thing which is “tell us (some number) fun facts about your pregnancy/adoption.” I tossed off a few things thinking nothing of it, and had a huge response. So, I’m posting them here as well. It occurs to me they give a bit of context about…

    cadamy

    December 8, 2013
    Uncategorized
    Adoption
  • Connected

    Yesterday, the kids, the dogs and I (no husband, or bonus boy – that’s another story) drove to my sister’s house, where we had a ridiculously traditional Thanksgiving celebration with my mom, siblings, aunt, cousins, and everyone’s respective spouses. There was turkey, dog-walking, cards and football. It was a gorgeous Oklahoma day. Growing up I…

    cadamy

    November 29, 2013
    Uncategorized
    attachment, connected, family, holidays, Thanksgiving
  • Super Woman

    I get a lot of “Shelley, I just don’t know how you do it.” Here’s my secret – I don’t. I fail miserably in lots of ways. Don’t get me wrong, I do my job well, I function as a mom, and I don’t drop too many balls overall. I don’t drink excessively, explore dangerous…

    cadamy

    July 23, 2013
    Uncategorized
    Adoption, grace, Mental Health, stress
  • The Talk

    I was really trying to avoid commenting about the Zimmerman trial, but it’s just not going to happen. My Facebook feed is schizophrenic again, because I have a very diverse group of friends, and the comments are all over the place.  The “Nugent says this vindicates citizen patrols” just put me over the edge. And,…

    cadamy

    July 15, 2013
    Uncategorized
    Race
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